anxiety rules - eviltoast

alt text: a tweet within a tweet. “coworker asked me my pronouns and I said ‘they/them but I’m at work right now so it’s whatever’ and then she came up to me later and said ‘this is you’” (showing a tweet that says) i’m probably nonbinary but i have a job so idrc about that rn

  • sheev@lemmy.zip
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    4 months ago

    literally me fr. Struggling with gender identity but too riddled with anxiety to want to have to put anything out there in a social environment, let alone work.

    • Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      4 months ago

      Probably for the best to not share it at work unless it’s something huge like going outwardly trans.

      Personally the less my coworkers know about me the better.

      • turmoil@feddit.org
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        4 months ago

        As a cishet person, I like to keep to myself as much as possible as well. That way, you can call people out on their homo-/transphobic behavior and make them really regret what they said.