New poll finds strong majority opposes gender-affirming care bans for trans minors - eviltoast
  • kava@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    4
    ·
    edit-2
    6 months ago

    I would want more research before mandating it as if it were lifesaving operations. But yeah, I agree in a general sense.

    I think a lot of people that disagree would change their minds if they had a child with gender dysphoria. A lot of conservatives believe the parents are manipulating the child or seeing things that aren’t there.

    But I’ve seen it before. I met a little boy maybe 8 or 9 years old in a very religious conservative household some years back. It was the neighbor of a family friend. Nobody manipulated him into saying stuff like “I’m a girl in a boy’s body”. Or trying to sneak makeup or dresses. They tried to pray it out of him. But it was persistent, year after year he would day these things.

    I think the same thing with a lot of anti-gay people having a gay son or whatever. Once you meet someone like that it sort of becomes real and makes you realize “oh wow maybe I’m wrong”

    I changed my mind after meeting that family and seeing the boy. I used to think differently on this.

    • assassin_aragorn@lemmy.world
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      4
      ·
      6 months ago

      It takes a strong and wise person to admit they were wrong and change their mind for the better. I applaud you for that. Given how prevalent calling things gay was when I was a teenager, I think a lot of people changed their minds for the better when they realized their friends and family were gay. And then some realized they were also gay, funny enough.

      I agree that we need more time before we institute any sort of policy or mandating, but I do think we should eventually do that.

      It’s interesting, I think a lot of conservative beliefs come down to the idea that children cannot be autonomous people with their own beliefs. They don’t believe that a child can have an independent thought, and that whatever they say is indoctrination from parents or school. It says a lot about their worldview.

      If someone fully believes in the independence of children to form their own thoughts and beliefs and opinions, I don’t see how they could support any sort of anti LGBT ban.