• Noxy@pawb.social
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    2 days ago

    You can do paperwork for these things

    Please explain to me how exactly could I “do paperwork” to restore, for example the spousal communications privilege and the spousal testimonial privilege that would both be taken away from me if my marriage was dissolved.

    And do you really expect people to just start pre-emptively filling out paperwork to notify every single hospital they might possibly ever end up in after some major health issue, that would allow their spouse to visit them, particularly if it’s a hospital in an area hostile to queer folks?

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      Please explain to me how exactly could I “do paperwork”

      You enter into a contractual union that is recognized by the federal government.

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          11 hours ago

          !That’s not how contracts work!<

          Which part? The entities entering into a contract or the judicial branch honoring contracts?

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            2 hours ago

            The part where a contract between two parties (spouses) has any power over anyone else who didn’t sign the contract, like hospitals for visitation for example.

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      2 days ago

      I get your point. I’m saying these should extend past marriages.