Me personally? I’ve become much less tolerant of sexist humor. Back in the day, cracking a joke at women’s expense was pretty common when I was a teen. As I’ve matured and become aware to the horrific extent of toxicity and bigotry pervading all tiers of our individualistic society, I’ve come to see how exclusionarly and objectifying that sort of ‘humor’ really is, and I regret it deeply.
Would using the term dumb not be just as bad as retarded? Both are medical terms defining issues that people didn’t choose.
This is why this is such a stupid thing to get upset about. It’s hypocritical to argue against one word and accept the other.