Woman called a child the N word, then she claimed to be the victim. So far she raised over $150,000 - eviltoast
  • MacN'Cheezus@lemmy.today
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    21 hours ago

    The article is missing an important fact, namely that the child allegedly tried to steal from her. There is no video evidence of this (as far as I know), but it probably should have been mentioned in the article.

    Not saying that’s an excuse for her behavior, but it does provide some background as to why she’s claiming to be a victim.

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      4 hours ago

      The person I already have tagged as “Nazi” is here in the comments with a “tobefaiiiiiiir”. Way to stay on Nazi brand.

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        35 minutes ago

        Ah yes, the other N-word, the one for white people. Really showing off your moral superiority, aren’t you.

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      10 hours ago

      Oh in that case…

      No, when someone robbed me and sexually assaulted my wife racial slurs are among the few insults I didn’t use because that’s not what my problem was with that asshole.

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      16 hours ago

      If a 5 year old white kid takes something from me ill make sure to call them slurs next time

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      21 hours ago

      A 5 year old taking your personal belongings is cause for a learning opportunity. Anyone who would call their self a victim is just pathetic.

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          15 hours ago

          Seemed like the perfect opportunity to teach a 5 year old that stealing isn’t okay without escalating the situation with the use of racial slurs.

        • Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world
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          19 hours ago

          Talk to the childs parent. Be polite, the more polite, the more embarrassed the parent will be. Then the child will learn a lesson from thier parent.

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            19 hours ago

            The guy in the video didn’t seem all that interested in his son’s behavior, although it’s hard to tell if it was because he was more offended about the slur. I don’t really see any winners here, they both acted like idiots if you ask me.

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              6 hours ago

              She’s a whacko. The dad acted with far greater restraint than I would have (and did) in similar circumstances.

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              8 hours ago

              As a father, I can understand his reaction as recorded. He is defending his kid from essential an adult attack. Sounds like he saw her chasing his kid. Had she discussed it politely, he very likely would have been focused on the misbehavior of his own child. No guarantees of course. But the kids are 5. He may have been looking to start a game of chase with the other kid or something. They just don’t know how things are done, and they have to learn. Reacting with racial slurs to normal 5 year old behavior just totaly destroys the chance for learning.

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                7 hours ago

                Agreed. Clearly the slur was not helpful, as it escalated the situation instead of defusing it (big surprise, I know).

                It’s just disappointing to see grown adults act just as irresponsible as the children they are supposed to care for.

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              16 hours ago

              This is a major L take. Your argument is to compare bad behavior performed by a 5 year old child and a grown adult, and say “they are basically equivalent”. The Internet is trying to point out to you how ridiculous it is to hold a 5 year old and professional adult to the same standards.

              The teacher is hands down “the asshole” in this scenario, and I am saying this as a professional public school teacher. Yes, the five year old was wrong to steal, but the kid is five and is in the process of learning what society considers right and wrong. The teacher escalated the scenario due to her bigotry and then expected the father to be susceptive to her concerns about the child stealing stuff. She should have professionally address the behavior to the child’s parents and admin (especially if it was repeated behavior) so that the team can help the child understand why what they are doing is incorrect.

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                13 hours ago

                This happened on a public playground, not in a school. As far as I could see from the video, there were no teachers or authority figures in sight.

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                  10 hours ago

                  Oops, that’s my fault on messing up the context. Nevertheless, my point still stands.

    • Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org
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      21 hours ago

      It matters exactly zero why she did it. I mean they could have mentioned her alleged motive it in the article but it’s far from an important fact imo.

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        20 hours ago

        The article makes it appear as if she called the child a slur for no reason at all. Whether her excuse is valid is another question, but you can’t just leave that out.

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          4 hours ago

          There is literally NEVER a reason to call a child a slur. How is this so hard for you to understand?

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            33 minutes ago

            I already said I wasn’t trying to excuse her behavior. It was dumb and unnecessary, and clearly not very helpful.

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          20 hours ago

          The article makes it appear as if she called the child a slur for no reason at all.

          She basically did. I don’t see a reason for taking her motives into account whatsoever. If she was a kindergartner you’d say something like “I don’t wanna hear it! You don’t call people that.” and that would be the end of it.

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              4 hours ago

              Shut the fuck up and kill yourself.

              …did that feel good to be on the receiving end of, or did it hurt?

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                13 hours ago

                I already said it’s not an excuse for her behavior but it is important context for the story. The article makes it seem like she called him a slur without any provocation whatsoever. Whether the allegation is true or not is a different story, but it’s definitely leaving out an important detail from the video.

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                  6 hours ago

                  The allegation of theft came from the same person verbally abusing the kid. What possible reason is there to believe her? It’s more likely she was just fabricating an excuse.

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                    31 minutes ago

                    Yeah that’s certainly possible but it’s still unfair reporting to just leave out that part of her story.

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                20 hours ago

                It’s not the words that are hurting you in that case, it’s the people with guns who are enforcing them.

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            19 hours ago

            It’s all manufactured outrage if you ask me. They want you to get mad and stay mad so they can tell you who to hate and what to do about it instead of doing something productive with your life.

            Without social media and the Internet, none of us would have ever heard about this incident (or others like it), unless it happened to someone we actually know, and our lives would have likely been better for it. Definitely more peaceful.

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                4 hours ago

                Because there aren’t two sides to calling a child a slur. It’s verge straightforwardly wrong every single time.

                • Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world
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                  3 hours ago

                  I don’t really recall anything about two sides. I saw an additional complaint that the new left out context, like they always do, in order to get more clicks.

            • Modern_medicine_isnt@lemmy.world
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              8 hours ago

              You hit the nail on the head. A polarized populace is easier to extract money from. The proof is in how much money poor trump supporters are willing to give to a “billionaire”. There is a whole economy around a polarized populace. News, poloticians, “influencers”, and various businesses like truth social that caters only to a polorized populace. In the end, this is all about money. As it always is.