Indistinguishable! - eviltoast
  • chakan2@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I don’t hate trans people. No one with a penis is going to use the same bathroom or changing room as my daughter.

    It’s not a discussion.

    Despite otherwise treating trans people with respect and dignity, that’s one of my only views that conflicts with the hard left…therefore I’m a demon terf that hates trans people.

    I shrug…I’m not voting R, but it makes it hard as hell to vote D.

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      1 year ago

      So you’d rather a 6ft muscular Transmasc with a beard and killer pecs use it because they got a pussy? Great priorities there

      Also does this imply you’re okay with post-op trans women using the same changing room?

      What about post-op trans men?

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          Oh I know, this is far from my first rodeo. I just think it’s important to for others who may be on the fence see that they fall apart. You don’t debate for the person you’re talking to, if they care enough to comment they’re probably past the point of convincing, you debate for the people who are reading and may be unsure of their feelings.

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        Post op implies a commitment and medical intervention. That does change my views.

        So you’d rather a 6ft muscular Transmasc with a beard and killer pecs use it because they got a pussy?

        I don’t understand any of that.

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          Post op implies a commitment and medical intervention. That does change my views.

          You know what else implies a commitment and medical intervention? The hormones that are currently growing my breast in my 20s.

          I don’t understand any of that

          Let me break it down for you

          6ft tall

          Measurement of height

          muscular

          A person with big muscles

          Transmasc

          Someone assigned female at birth taking masculizing hormones

          a beard

          Facial hair

          killer pecs

          Really big pectoral muscles (not the lumps of adipose tissue known as breast)

          a pussy

          Something your mom showed me last night

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          You don’t even know what trans guys are but you think trans people are somehow dangerous ie not letting trans women use the women’s restroom?

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            1 year ago

            not letting trans women use the women’s restroom?

            While my daughter is in there? Yes…you’re correct. Clearly that means I’m the most vile fucked up evil bastard on the planet.

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              I agree you are vile because we are not dangerous or subhuman. Also trust me you don’t want trans guys like me using the women’s restroom because I’ll clog all the toilets with my shits. Hell I’ll even prep by going to Chipotle first

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              You’re saying that, because you have decided that trans people are sexual predators, because you tell yourself stories where trans women are men who rape children, we should put ourselves in the legitimate danger of being a women in a men’s bathroom. The last time I was in a men’s room, a teenage boy turned around at the door because he was so sure he was in the wrong place. That was five years ago. If you had a son, you wouldn’t be comfortable with me using the same bathroom as him. If you had two children of different genders, you would be uncomfortable with me using any bathroom. Because I am clearly a woman, but you have also decided that I am a man who will hurt your daughter. Stop playing stupid games and say you don’t want trans people in public.

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                I’m pretty sure you’re projecting all that at this point.

                Asking you to wait to use the restroom isn’t implying any of that. It’s simply decorum that has been decided upon by society. If it’s that important to you to disregard that, it does indeed call into question your judgement on more sensitive matters.

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                  You don’t get to decide an entire group of people can’t use the fucking restroom that’s right for them just because you imagine we’re all predators. No one is after you and your ugly kids except priests

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                  Waiting to use the restroom because you have decided that I am a sexual predator. I can’t hardly stand all the fucking respect and dignity. Literally nobody has ever been afraid of me in the bathroom with their children because I pass as a cis woman. For all you know, I’ve been in the restroom with your daughter multiple times. Same with thousands of other trans women well into transition. So how will you enforce your plan of discrimination? Are you going to do genital checks or gender interviews of every woman who enters the same bathroom as your daughter? Because that’s the only way you’re going to filter me out.

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      I don’t hate trans people. No one with a penis is going to use the same bathroom or changing room as my daughter.

      Laws forcing trans people to use the bathroom of their born gender will force transmen to use a woman’s room, effectively forcing people with a penis to use the same bathroom as your daughter.

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      Why are you thinking about other peoples genitals in the bathroom?

      Despite otherwise treating trans people with respect and dignity, that’s one of my only views that conflicts with the hard left…

      You’re treating them like predators by default, you call that respect and dignity?

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      You really pay attention to other people’s genitals in the bathroom? Maybe you are the one who shouldn’t be allowed in public bathrooms. I feel uncomfortable sharing the bathroom with someone who is obssessed with genitals as you are.