I'm gay and I dunno what it means - eviltoast
  • FeelzGoodMan420
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    25 days ago

    The only people paying attention to nuanced differences in women’s hairstyles are other women. Most men wouldn’t notice a minor difference like this lol. I’ve joked about this with my wife before. Only other women pay attention to women’s outfits and hair. Men don’t notice or care. We’re interested in other things lol.

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      25 days ago

      My wife gets mad at me when she asks my opinion between different shoes. “Which ones are more comfortable?” They both look great, but we’re going to be standing and walking a lot.

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        24 days ago

        Haha yea. Same. She’ll show me 2 pairs of shoes that look almost exactly the same and demand that I choose haha. But to be fair, there are plenty of things I show her that she doesn’t give a shit about. So at least it’s equal on that front :-P.

        • NKBTN@feddit.uk
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          24 days ago

          Could be internalised patriarchy. Sometimes, when women ask a mans opinion on a few options, they’re not actually interested in the man’s opinion. They want to hear their own opinion, just said in a mans voice.

    • The Infinite Nematode@feddit.uk
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      24 days ago

      It’s like that study that showed that the size of men’s pecs are of interest to other men, women don’t really look at them as indicators of attractiveness

      #notallwomen sweeping generalisation etc etc

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        24 days ago

        Oh I absolutely believe it. I think a lot of women like men who are a bit muscular, but over a certain amount and it’s 100% for the bros at the gym lol.

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        24 days ago

        It’s a similar story with cars, unless you’re driving an exotic of some type, only other car people care.

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        24 days ago

        It’s the highest honor to get complicated by some jacked bro at the gym though. That’s how you know you’ve achieved jacked bro status.

    • exasperation@lemm.ee
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      24 days ago

      Let other people enjoy their preferences. Some people get very particular about console/IDE fonts, keyboard switches, T-shirt fabric blends, fork shape, guitar string material, etc. Others like fashion and style. Some like architecture and interior design. Let people enjoy things, and get deep in the weeds on minute differences if they want to.

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        24 days ago

        What are you talking about? I never said people shouldn’t enjoy their own things. Did you reply to the right comment? I just said most men don’t pay attention to nuances in women’s haircuts. Your response is weird.