@kajko - eviltoast
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Cake day: July 10th, 2023

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  • I’m not judging you right now, just curious. Does it also feel that (gay) men immediately sexualize other men? Do you do that? Did you feel it was done to you?

    Was talking to my partner now (he’s a man, I’m not). Wondered if hearing straight men objectifying women when you’re yourself not into women sounds a lot more jarring and unreasonable, precisely because you’re in a way “sober” about women.

    I’m not saying men don’t have a huge damaging influence growing up, that a lot can only break with a lot of effort, but with your brother’s friends it sounds also like a bunch of horny teenagers posturing to each other. Not ideal behavior and not always harmless, but far from making men emotionless hole-seeking creatures.








  • kajko@feddit.nutoAutism@lemmy.worldSmart kid!
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    11 months ago

    When someone asks if they can pet our dog, we always say it’s up to her. Sure she cannot speak, but always has little body language and many times she’s just not interested or looks uncomfortable or impatient to keep walking.


  • I discovered Discworld a while ago but I hadn’t been able to stick to any of the books I tried. Last year I found the witches series and i really liked most of it, specially anything to do with granny and tiffany. I also liked a lot of things about the death series but after that I started to find much of it a bit tiring and I couldn’t get into any other book. I cannot put my finger on it, but the older the book, the harder it was.

    I am still glad I discovered this world and maybe I just need to take smaller doses of it.


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    11 months ago

    Nice! Do you have one of those pin presses? I got my enby flag button at a convention that had the machines. But otherwise I don’t know where to get the pins and other things like flags.

    Also I lose them a lot, they dislodge very easily from everywhere T_T

    For image description it’s unfortunate with Lemmy clients but I usually add them to the post text.