@emmie - eviltoast
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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • I think it is something more of an ego thing. I never was in this position but many people explained to me that they feel offended if I am late.
    I only feel annoyed in such situation that I have to wait and can’t do anything before the person arrives. Being so often late myself I don’t think I could be truly angry though.

    Sorry I didn’t read it but I have adhd and it would be ableist to expect me to /s?

    God you guys really can make a super long comments have you thought of me? How do I feel seeing such a long wall of text and being excluded from discussion? /s

    All in all I won’t feel guilty for being late but I won’t feel entitled either. It’s my fault but it’s pointless to feel guilty if it happened. Not good for your mental health. Generally guilt is counterproductive and entitlement is weird.
    I try to not be late but if it happens it happens.





  • Unfortunately so much stuff on the web is astroturfed it’s hard to form a good opinion nowadays.

    Even the products reviews or maybe especially these it’s hard to tell what is true nowadays and what is fiction or misinfo

    Id love to brush it off and say eh just paranoid but there’s real money and motive.

    Reddit was relatively good for some time but then I heard it’s already full of marketing


  • emmie@beehaw.orgtoChat@beehaw.orghow's your week going, Beehaw
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    8 months ago

    As always - extreme. 5/7 days I feel like a god(dess?) and other 2 like something slimy at the bottom of the barrel. Today is one of the worse so I need to watch myself to not say something stupid and not be a complete troll menace but if I survive then in 2 days I come back again with boundless love for the world yay.

    Hard to get used to this rollercoaster sometimes I just need to not use any social media in those 2 days but always fail haha

    Also bought whole apple lineup watch, phone, laptop, ipad, airpods this week suddenly because now I am an apple fangirl.

    But it made sense right, I wanted to use google comfy life easier making features but didn’t want to give up my privacy or install some graphene os madness that would make life just harder



  • I sometimes wonder what constitutes betterment. If it is happiness or on the contrary feeling temporarily unhappy to feel happier later ? Is it attaining values that contemporary society has deemed desirable?

    Health sounds like one aspect that is objective. Physical fitness, mental wellbeing. But what if things that society puts on pedastal degrade our mental and physical health? Is it worsement ?

    I guess the question is collectivism vs individualism.

    Sorry about this, for some reason once a month I have a few days when I use social media in questionable ways