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Cake day: April 20th, 2026

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    24 hours ago

    Hey, I just wanted to say that I appreciate you and I’m glad you’re still with us.

    FWIW, your family would be traumatised if you did anything like that; quick skim reading tells me you have a daughter. This isn’t meant to guilt trip you regarding your feelings; I just wanted to offer a counter to the “my family would be better too.”

    I hope that you end up feeling in control of your own life, and maybe even proud of it. You deserve to walk her down the aisle with happy tears in your eyes (if marriage ends up being on the cards for her!)


  • I have this friend that I invite over sometimes, but he has this habit of extending that invite to mutual friends without telling me, and so I’ll suddenly have 2 or 3 people rocking up to my place unexpectedly.

    It drives me absolutely bananas. It was supposed to be a low-key hang out and now I have to come up with group activities on the spot.







  • I think you’re imagining the difference between them from a technological point of view to be much bigger than it actually is.

    I have debit and credit cards, Visa and Mastercard for both. Using them feels identical; one draws from your bank account balance and the other goes towards an invoice sent to you at the end of the month.

    When you pay with them, the vendors themselves don’t see any private information about you, other than the card number and the way your name is written on the card. Some of my cards only have my first initial and my last name.

    They can, however, track that card number across multiple purchases or with partners to build a profile.

    Visa and Mastercard themselves can see a lot more, but that’s a given if you use any kind of banking services anyway.

    In terms of where they’re accepted, I’ve used them all over the world and the only time it mattered which type I use, is this one flight where Ryanair was not accepting debit when I was trying to buy water… Somehow you have to borrow money to eat/drink on board, which is just silly.






  • There’s no easy way to put this, but some cultural traits are bad. Your homophobia is rooted in broader social pressures imparted onto you by your environment/community. These pressures can mess with your sense of self-worth, but they are usually ripple effects from decades of clinging to religion in dire/traumatic circumstances. You can and should be better.

    If it makes any difference to you I’m middle eastern myself