This was absolutely not the case back when I started using Linux back in 2007.
There’s been a lot of work put into the desktop Linux ecosystem by a many different organizations and individuals to get it to this point.
Linux phones are at the stage where you need to apply a custom kernel patch to get it to sleep/wake properly on your hardware, get the camera working, etc. It will also take a long time for desktop Linux apps to get responsive (i.e. offer a good experience with a small touch screen).












Just checking: have you also posted this on Reddit?
Lemmy is a much better platform from an ideological standpoint, but for your situation maybe increasing visibility is a bigger priority.