@Metju - eviltoast
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Cake day: July 16th, 2023

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  • Recent Linux convert here. Had some small background with it due to use at work (through WSL, unfortunately 😅). When Windows became too overbearing and intrusive for my own taste, decided to take a plunge and created a dual-boot setup with Bazzite (of course on my private machine). It was honestly refreshing to see stuff run with the same (or sometimes even better) performance.

    This short anecdote now leads me to the conclusion; is it as good as we think it is?

    Imo: hell fuckin’ yeah. It gets the job done and respects me as an end-user (with the trade-off of “some manual work might be required”).

    Also, as a side-note: I live in the EU; I grew tired with an overbearing, salesman/rapist-like mentality of MS (and Windows, by extension) while reaping benefits of some modicum of privacy regulations. I cannot even begin to fathom how fucked the situation is where ppl don’t have these protections to rely on.







  • Alphabetically by bands:

    The Agonist:

    • Prisoners
    • Orphans

    Alestorm:

    • Seventh Rum of the Seventh Rum
    • Sunset On The Golden Age
    • No Grave But The Sea

    Arch Enemy:

    • Deceivers
    • War Eternal
    • Rise of the Tyrant

    As I Lay Dying:

    • Shaped By Fire

    Avatar:

    • Dance Devil Dance
    • Hunter Gatherer
    • Hail the Apocalypse

    Godsmack:

    • The Oracle
    • Faceless

    Parasite Inc:

    • Dead And Alive
    • Cyan Night Dreams

    System Of A Down:

    • Steal This Album!
    • Mezmerize






  • Okay, I’ll try to take a stab at this point by point:

    • The intended effect was for you to go no-contact with her. Imo - a nuclear option on her part (and as you mentioned, there were alternatives).
    • Yes, you do, and yes, I am sure. No discussion on this point, no moral hair-splitting-type-of-deal.
    • That’s the best thing you could have done. While battling addicition and your inner demons is an uphill struggle (been on therapy for 4 years after a distaster of a break-up myself), it’s worth it, if not for your friends and family, then for you and for the sake of improving as a person.
    • Unfortunately, cannot give you an answer on this. And, to be completely honest, you don’t need one; best thing you can do here in my opinion is to let it go.
    • Keep going to therapy, keep working on yourself. This will pass if you keep working on this, I promise.