It is literally impossible to be a "good" nonbinary person - eviltoast

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  • buttonmash@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    To add:

    That user had previously engaged in a harassment campaign against drag,[…]

    That’s literally a lie. A mod banning you from like 4 communities is not a harassment campaign.

      • Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online
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        2 months ago

        I may be newer and not as active here so I don’t know the whole story but from what I’ve seen looking in the modlog buttonmash has a point, drag’s behavior over the past few days is extremely unacceptable, drag has said some awful things that should never be said to anyone, let alone fellow trans people.

        However some people have been giving drag a hard time over drag’s pronouns, and… you know what… Honestly, shut up! Who the fuck are you to complain about another person’s pronoun preferences. You’re losers that’s what. Maybe drag has done some things that aren’t okay but that’s no excuse to invalidate drag’s pronouns, fuck you and everyone everyone who said that to or about this person. You’re not real allies even if you claim to be, you literally invalidate fellow trans people. Seriously fuck you!

              • Norah - She/They@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                2 months ago

                Hey, I hear what you are saying, but using the correct pronouns for someone is not just being “supportive”, it’s acting like a human fucking being. The person you’re replying to is literally saying drag did the wrong thing, so all I can assume your response means is “I can choose to ignore someone’s pronouns if I think they’re a bad person”. Which is super fucked up. For example, I think Caitlin Jenner is a complete and total piece of shit, but I still use her correct pronouns because I’m not an asshole. This is coming from someone who, similar to drag, uses ‘pup’ as a neopronoun, Grow Up!