What is the best selfhostable messaging service for family? - eviltoast

I want to selfhost a messaging service for my family. It should be secure and have voice calling option, ideally. Thank you.

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    1 year ago

    The problem of XMPP is not hosting it, it’s the clients. Give me one easy-to-use guide to have

    • e2ee text messaging
    • groups
    • audio/video calling

    working equally well on desktop, Android and iOS, and I will gladly drop my matrix server.