• kernelle@lemmy.world
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      2 years ago

      You’re missing the point by like a mile, you have to be open to new ones. Relationships don’t just appear out of nowhere.

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          2 years ago

          Oh no you’re mistaken, I got incredibly lucky. But after more than a decade I can confidently say that I’ve never seemed more desirable since I have nothing to prove. That confidence is what I’m talking about, I’ve seen many people try hard and fail. I’ve seen many more people try less and succeed.