Thanks Nath, look it’s not perfect here, but its so much better than everywhere else and I’m glad you took the time to write a measured response. I still don’t want to have to report things which moderation can pick up, but I will. What we want we don’t always get.

I stand by my feminist rant though. Seriously, men treat me awfully. Always fucking have, it’s not just post transition and I’ve always been a feminist. I know men don’t like hearing it because a lot of them are very good exceptions to the rule. But while we face misogyny almost every day, one whiff of misandry and I’m questioned about it, by a man. Women just groan usually.