i feel like it’s such a big part of my life but i don’t talk to anyone about it… i’m about to go to bed and i stroked myself to orgasm so many times, shot so many loads out… sometimes i wake up in the middle of the night horny and fuck my pillow before i fall asleep again… it feels so good and i feel so connected to my body… i love being horny and have no one to share it with haha…
what’s your favorite ethical porn… i feel like lemmy nsfw is alright about it, tho probably not perfect… i think i’ll sign up for kink.com, i think it might be the only ethical porn site with hard enough porn for my tastes… oh well, it be like this
gngnngng i’ll read replies tomorrow sometime
No, and people come off as pretty weird when porn is such a significant part of their life and so frequently on their mind that it’s their chosen pastime and conversation topic. It suggests an imbalance in how much porn is a part of one’s life, when it’s totally fine for it to play a large role, but not so large that you feel a strong urge to bring it up even when it makes most people uncomfortable.
I would never shame someone for consuming (large amounts of) porn, but if someone thinks about it so much that they are frequently bringing it up in average settings even though it makes many people uncomfortable, that’s honestly pretty rude. And if someone knows that’s the case and still feels a strong urge to do so, I think that demonstrates an issue with how and how much they are thinking about it.
If you find someone or some online community that intentionally welcomes that, lean into it and enjoy. Outside of that, exposing others to conversation they’d rather not have is not cool, likely to put distance between you, and pretty selfish. If you can’t resist, that’s a whole other issue.
can you explain the part of my post that made you think i’m the kind of person who brings up porn in the average scenario… bc i’m not LMAO that’s why i made the post, no one talks about sexuality and such… i spend a few hours a day playing games and i like talking with people about it… i can spend up to a few hours a day jerking off or w/e… i don’t think it’s so awful to want to connect with other people about it. but obviously i don’t just dump this on people randomly??
but that’s also why i made this post in the goddamn porn lemmy 😭😭😭
I thought the question was more theoretical/conversational, so I just answered with how I felt about the idea of bonding with friends over porn, not how I think you do it. It doesn’t appeal to me personally, and the title of the post is “do you ever want to?” So I was just offering my answer.
ok gotcha thanks for clarifying lmaooo i felt so judged fr
Many apologies!