I've (M) had 2 close (F) friends since almost 10 years ago, and now suddenly they say they don't want to be friends with me anymore. - eviltoast

Title says it, apparently i’ve been “too much” for them to handle (and i recognize i was quite the bag of rocks in 2021).

But these last two years everything had been just fine (i apologized for my misbehavior, i finally got a job), everything was going great.

But now they suddenly felt they’ve “changed and matured” (their words, not mine) and that somehow does not allow us to be friends any longer.

Any advice?

I feel i’m losing my head over this.

  • mojofrododojo@lemmy.worldEnglish
    17·
    7 months ago

    you can’t force friendship. for whatever reason things changed, that’s a fact now, and no reasoning or anguish will make them decide to reverse their course. replace them with better friends. easier said than done, but letting this eat your brain isn’t a valid solution. moving on, is.