Why do people around me tend to increase their responsibility load (i.e. have children, become a manager, do charity, etc.) while I (30M) try to avoid it as much as I can? - eviltoast
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    7 months ago

    @wathek thanks. I think it was a misunderstanding caused by my poor communication.

    I’m sorry that’s been your experience here. It’s been very different for me - I was previously on reddit and saw a lot of negativity and cynicism and despair over there. And outright meanness, shills etc.

    Kbin/lemmy has made me feel much more revitalised and optimistic, I contribute way more content here, but also somehow have more free time, and I’ve become a bit more active in my community and local/national politics IRL as well. I feel like I’m really reconnecting with that side of life.

    Unfortunately Lemmy isn’t that for you, but I hope you find somewhere that is.