Congrats! I never said that. First, Clinical Depression is a serious matter and shame on you for trying to suggest that any amount of just thinking differently would change the outcome.

Oh my bad.

This you?

Men should reject these ideas that men are the default providers or leaders. Believe those are true is an irrational trap. Men can be leaders or providers, but so can women.

Rejecting ideas -> changing the way they think

And not only that, you for some reason think that everyone should change their opinions to match your world view.

Sorry, I reject your giant wall of pedantry and goal post moving.