Why are people so antsy to see others in person? - eviltoast

I WFH, every year one of the goals that the rest of the team decides is that it’s “so great” to see each other in person. The past few years haven’t worked out but one did. I spent hours in a couple of airports, the huge expense for the company, I spent days away from my family, and for what? So you could look me in my same face you would see if we turned cameras on every once in a while? My husband says I’m being weird, but I legitimately want to know, what is the benefit? I hate being there and have to play nice so you can…look me even closer in the face?

  • Lmaydev@programming.dev
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    9 months ago

    Some people need to be around others, some people hate it, some people are indifferent. Everyone is different.

    I find social interactions very draining. While others find being isolated draining.

    I think we are likely in the minority but that doesn’t make us weird. No one is normal.

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      9 months ago

      Social interactions are totally draining for me, but I cannot understand a person until I had a face to face communication with them.

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        9 months ago

        Same here. I am introverted and I hate social interactions. It drains me. BUT for me, after talking and meeting a person face-to-face a few times, all the rest of the online communication becomes a lot more smooth-sailing.

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        9 months ago

        Thanks for posting that. I find social interactions pretty draining as well, and default to email or chat whenever possible, but your post made it click in my head that even a quick video call with a new (or old!) colleague makes later communications feel so much easier.