Email services for self hosters - eviltoast

So, I’m trying to set up a self-hosted mastodon instance, and of course this requires an email service. Self hosting one is not an option, because of anti-spam stuff, or so everyone says. The recommendations are to use services like mailgun or postmark, but there’s one thing I don’t really understand:

All these services require verification of an email to be able to send from it. For example, if I want to use noreply[at]mydomain.com with mailgun, I need to click a link sent to that address, which to me feels like a catch-22. How can I receive that email if I don’t have the email service set up yet? Do I have to set the domain up with some private email service (protonmail, tuta…) first?

Any help is appreciated, I’m pretty new at this.

Edit: Alright, so it seems that Mailgun actually doesn’t require this weird confirmation email, just dns records. The first one I tried, SendPulse, did. Postmark requires an email from the domain at signup. Hope someone else can learn from this.

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    9 months ago

    Idk what mailgun is doing, but many services verify your domain by having you add a specific TXT DNS record or automatic verification by logging into Cloudflare (if that’s where your Domains at) or something

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      9 months ago

      Do you have any specific recommendations?

      ETA: A lot of the services I’ve seen even require signing up with a custom domain, meaning I can’t even get past that stage (well, I could use my personal domain I guess, but I’d rather not).

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        9 months ago

        Are you trying to avoid taking out another domain and use a service that offers free subdomains so it’s like noreply[at]yourinstance.service.com?

        I don’t know of any specific service, but I would just take out another domain, they’re pretty cheap for .com and .net over at Cloudflare