How can I look more like my own selfies, and maybe look more like a goth women vs whatever I look like now - eviltoast

I know I’m a self hating weirdo but I feel like I should be allowed to feel more cozy in my skin.

A selfie I dislike, and a selfie I can kinda tolorate https://imgur.com/gallery/6R78NUn

    • skymtf@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
      2·
      9 months ago

      What would be more flattering honestly, I can never get a clear answer. Also sadly I can’t really try out hair styles since straightening it would be semi permanent.

      • Seltzer@lemmy.worldEnglish
        5·
        9 months ago

        My hair type is just like yours! Get yourself some curl defining lotion; it helps to tame the frizz!

        I don’t know your personal style, but try out a ponytail. It’s a really cute look with big curly hair like yours!

      • Sop@lemmy.blahaj.zone
        4·
        9 months ago

        Your curls are beautiful, but managing them is hard. It takes a while to find out which products work, so you could experiment a bit. It looks like you currently don’t have any layers in your hair, which makes the style look a bit bland. Going to a hairdresser and getting some proper layers would probably do wonders. And as someone else said, a ponytail with your hair would look really nice.