Online dating - eviltoast
  • Cannacheques@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I used to share my music taste quite openly but these days not so much. Sharing stuff just gives some people more ammo to shoot you with when they want to try hold shit over your head

    • dustyData@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      You don’t have a music taste problem, you have a social circle problem. Those people aren’t your friends. Who, other than a kid in school, would willingly spend time with someone who “holds shit over your head”?

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        1 year ago

        Who, other than a kid in school, would willingly spend time with someone who “holds shit over your head”?

        When that person is your parent. We don’t all get to choose nice and supporting families.

        My mother would do that. I don’t tell her anything beyond how the weather is anymore.