Online dating - eviltoast
  • R0cket_M00se@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    That’s total bullshit, sorry.

    I’ve had fantastic relationships with people who like music I hate, and bad ones with people who like the same genres as me.

    You can’t judge someone’s personality by their music taste outside of it just being basic or not. Such a strange thing to hang your hat on.

      • quinnly@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        If you can’t connect with someone just because they don’t like the same music as you then there’s definitely something wrong with you

        • YoBuckStopsHere@lemmy.world
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          1 year ago

          You’ll never be happy with that person if you don’t like the same music. Like I would never date anyone who likes Country Music. That is a hard stop for me as it says that you have no taste and like things that are bland and boring. I’m more of an Alterative Rock type of person and sought connections with those who like that style of music. Being Gen X that wasn’t hard to find.

          • quinnly@lemmy.ml
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            1 year ago

            Never be happy? What a completely moronic take. Honestly I think you should keep avoiding people who don’t like the same music as you, they’re probably better off without you around them.

            • YoBuckStopsHere@lemmy.world
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              1 year ago

              Music is a core piece of a cohort and not sharing an interest in the same music will always lead to conflict and breakup.

              • quinnly@lemmy.ml
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                1 year ago

                Maybe if you’re a child, or have the emotional range of a child

                  • quinnly@lemmy.ml
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                    1 year ago

                    I can’t think of anything less serious to break up with someone over than music taste. That’s the most superficial shit I’ve heard in a while