[serious] What are your most important boundaries you've learned to enforce? - eviltoast

Nobody tells me what I’m going to do or where I will be going and when that happens

I am open to invitations or requests or suggestions where my involvement is desired or ostensibly necesary for somone else. But I will never respond to this as a statement of fact or in the form of a threat

  • cheese_greater@lemmy.worldOP
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    11 months ago

    Gaslighting is deadly and I violently shut it down whenever I perceive or sense it. It is emotional rape, pure and simple, and the REDDEST of flags 🚩🥀

    Its been interesting engaging with people I know now that everyone is aware we don’t mix factual and feelings-based conversations.

    Much nicer when we know what’s debatable or negotiable and what is off-limits.