Is it normal that I feel pretty bad for ignoring homeless people begging for help? How do others ignore them without feeling bad? - eviltoast

I want to give them money but since my childhood my parents pretty much told me that they are all either faking it or are too lazy to go to work for money. I mean, I guess they can go to work but not everyone gets accepted to work as easy as it sounds like.

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    10 months ago

    And none of this addresses whether or not giving money to panhandlers helps them.

    I’ve lived on the street before, it sucks, but what the typical visibly homeless person does isn’t sustainable and doesn’t help them. It’s just a rut of wasteful and irrational behaviour, if you are panhandling you’re not engaging in productive behaviour that will result in long-term changes.