What's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one? - eviltoast
    • Nalivai@discuss.tchncs.de
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      1 year ago

      Honesty? Yes. Brutal honesty? Hell no.
      If you don’t want to be a twat, you should take at effort at considering how your words will impact a person, and try to take brutality our of it. Not lying, not hiding anything, but being considerate, that’s, like, bare minimum

    • probably@beehaw.org
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      1 year ago

      This is almost always just being an asshole. You can be honest and be an asshole all at the same time. There is a reason that people train in conflict de-escalation and how to talk to people in a tactful way.

    • LucyLastic@beehaw.org
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      1 year ago

      I’m gonna be straight with you, apart from the music the Rocky films were not the peak of cinema. I’m sorry, but it had to be said.