Those who didn't initially want kids, but got influenced/pressured by their partners, how that played out? - eviltoast

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  • Pons_Aelius@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    I mentioned on our first or second date that I did not want kids. They were not as strong in stating it but I received no push back. So I assumed they were ok with it.

    In the end they revealed that they thought that I would eventually grow up and want kids.

    That relationship ended about 12 years ago.

    Since then I have been more like yourself. I make sure early on that any possible partner knows that this is something that will not change.