So now you have a friend that you have so much in common with, to do stuff together that you both enjoy, and not do stuff you both dislike. You’d keep a friend like that if he was a guy. What if you told this girl you want to try to be friends, but please make an effort to not be so hot when you’re hanging out together. No makeup, her least flattering clothes. Unless you’re going out drinking and being wingpeople for each other, then obviously you both help each other make attractive choices. If you still can’t let her out of your fuckzone, and treat her as a real friend, then maybe it’s time to part.
So now you have a friend that you have so much in common with, to do stuff together that you both enjoy, and not do stuff you both dislike. You’d keep a friend like that if he was a guy. What if you told this girl you want to try to be friends, but please make an effort to not be so hot when you’re hanging out together. No makeup, her least flattering clothes. Unless you’re going out drinking and being wingpeople for each other, then obviously you both help each other make attractive choices. If you still can’t let her out of your fuckzone, and treat her as a real friend, then maybe it’s time to part.
Yeah maybe I can try to arrange an non-romantic hangout with her. We had so many date ideas, and many of them can be adapted to bring friends over.
Additionally, she wasn’t that hot without flattering clothes, but I’m not particularly hot either, so I expect to date average looking girls.
That’s a good attitude! Both as regards this friendship and girls in general.