cozy ejabberd xmpp chat server guide - eviltoast

cross-posted from: https://slrpnk.net/post/2285760

i wrote a blog post about setting up a compliant ejabberd server. i haven’t really written something like this before so apologies if there are mistakes, i followed the guide myself on a clean server and it seems correct but as we all know ‘works on my machine’ is usually not enough