What is something you wish you knew sooner, or what is something that would have helped you earlier on in your journey? - eviltoast

Any general advice? Don’t try x, or definitely look into y? Be aware of Z?

  • Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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    1 year ago

    🤷‍♀️

    3 months ago I didn’t give being cis a second thought 😅 who knows really. I do have a book about identity I really need to work through though.

    • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      1 year ago

      Heh, yeah. There is no easy road here when suddenly you’ll have all the answers. But ultimately, the whole point of the journey is to give yourself permission to find who you are, however long that takes :)

      • Blahaj_Blast@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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        1 year ago

        Insightful and helpful as always Ada 😊

        “giving yourself permission” I have been realizing that, slowly I’m finding stuff I’m ok with or like and only able to come to the conclusion that I just wasn’t allowing myself to whatever.