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InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works

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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • Blahaj doesn’t even have downvotes and there isn’t a bunch of their users stirring shit in here either so idk about brigading.
    That one user above posted a rather neutral comment, maybe helpful even. Whatever.

    The modlogs are pretty straight forward.
    A blahaj admin banned CDRmittens 6 months ago, which means those posts simply don’t federate there anymore.
    That’s… pretty much all there is to it.

    Like, there isn’t a blahaj mod actively watching this community and removing things in a big-shark-conspiracy kinda way. The posts never even make it there because they’re from a user they banned locally.

    Lemmy kinda sucks in how one could never know about some remote bans, I’ll give you that.













  • Hey you’re not alone.
    Although I won’t pretend to fully understand who you are, I’m not even sure I do my own self.

    I had never heard of isogender, but kinda relate to.

    I’m not trans, but I don’t feel cis either.
    I have both masculine and feminine sides, although they’re not exactly clearly defined, it’s definitely there.
    I don’t feel gender fluid either, in the sense that I’m always somewhat all over the place like this, which is something that doesn’t really change.

    I guess isogender is not mutually exclusive with other labels, although I mostly dislike labeling myself, which feels arbitrarily restrictive.
    I guess, in a way, maybe that makes me somewhat agender, in the sense that I feel like the concept of gender isn’t much relevant to who I am as a person, although it’s also not absent either.

    I don’t really know how to describe this, but labeling myself always felt weird.
    It’s like people expect me to fit on a horizontal male-female axis, but instead of being in a single spot I’m a Jackson Pollock painting stop-motioned mid-throw in zero-G.