how can I develop a thick skin? - eviltoast

today was supposed to be my first day of therapy and the therapist didn’t show up. I’m pissed off. I wasted 2 hours for nothing.

I’ve sent her a polite message, asking if she’s sick and hoping she is well, but in reality I wanted to yell at her. However, if I yell at her, chances are she won’t treat me.

Before you suggest to find another therapist, finding a shrink where I live is very difficult and the other ones I contacted have either ignored me or are overbooked. I need therapy and it bothers me to be so dependent on one person.

For those of you who have experienced something similar, how doesn’t it bother you?

  • Aniki 🌱🌿@lemm.ee
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    9 months ago

    I know how you feel. I was ghosted by my therapist for months and so I just politely told him I am no longer in need of his services and went about my day.

    I still haven’t found a new one because everyone else is even worse.

    This fucking system blows.